The Huffington Post has a great article about 10 Understated Qualities of a Truly Beautiful Woman.
1. Elegance - being strong and assured in who you are;
2. Kindness - how you treat, think about and speak to others;
3. Composure - self control;
4. Courage - be willing to dare;
5. Confident - your self-awareness;
6. Deliberate - you're clear and persistent about who you are;
7. Intelligent - in both knowledge and emotions;
8. Humble - you know it's not all about you;
9. Honest - people love what is real; and
10. Loving - there is nothing more appealing than a loving person
Read the full article here.